The term “Visually Impaired” is a politically correct term for “Blind as a bat”. Just kidding. It does refer to a group of people who meet the condition of being Legally Blind. There are two main criteria, as I understand it, to meet the legal definition of blindness. First you have to have a visual acuity of 20/200 or worse. Second, your vision cannot be correctable. I have many friends who cannot see beyond their nose without their glasses, but see normally while wearing glasses or contacts.
I am very blessed that my vision is about 20/200. That means that a person with 20/20 vision can see at 200 feet what I have to be 20 feet away to see. You are probably thinking wow right now, and if I had ever seen 20/20 I might be thinking the same thing. However, I was born this way, and I don’t have any idea what I’m missing. In fact I feel blessed that my vision is better, and more stable than other VI people I know, including my husband. I do not use a cane, and most people don’t even realize I’m VI unless I need to read something.
My eyes are always dilated as I was born with out an iris. If you have ever had your eyes dilated you know how much brighter light is. Natural light kills me, and I wear sunglasses even on a very cloudy day. Luckily, artificial light is no problem except for strobe lights. But, two benefits of extra light coming in are my eyes adjust more quickly to the dark, and I see colors more vividly than most.
I also have nystagmus which causes my eyes to bounce slightly side to side. This makes it difficult to focus. Thus reading print, and street signs are nearly impossible without a magnifier or monocular ( a small one handed telescope). My eyes fatigue easily, and it takes me a long time to read something like a book. I am always the last one finished with worksheets, or questionnaires. It would take me forever to complete reading assignments in school, but I almost never mind, because I am so grateful that I can do those things myself.
Technology has been a game changer in my life, and for others with disabilities. Apple products have great accessibility that allows even my completely blind friends to use smart phones, and tablets. I have a computer program called Zoom Text that magnifies my PC computer screen. Our biggest obstacle to living a typical life is not driving a car. Even that will likely not be a problem for our children, and grandchildren. The powers that be are working on a completely automated automobile. How cool is that?!?!
Before anyone calls CPS or Oprah let me be clear that I do not want to sell my son. It is a joke meant to imply that I have had a tough day with him today. I think it is sad that I have to make such a disclaimer, but I do not feel like being blasted for trying to sell my son on the Internet.
I have a very rambunctious, and inquisitive 3 year old son. People who talk about the terrible twos have never lived with a three year old. Yes, they can communicate better as they’ve acquired more language, and their imagination blooms adding depth to their play. BUT….they learn that they are their own person, and you cannot truly make them do anything. Also that budding imagination, and stronger climbing muscles allows them to get into trouble that is far worse than a two year old tantrum.
We are in a war to see who will be the boss at my house, and today my son won the battle. He cannot leave anything alone! He has a very mechanical mind, and wants to figure out how things work. Add to that a strong will, and a good helping of mischievousness, and you can start to see where this is going. He often waits to start up until I’m nursing, because he knows I’ll be up stairs for a while.
I’ll spare you the details, but in short today he nearly broke my Origami stroller, tried to radiate his baby sister at his dental appointment, threw every toy he has on his bedroom floor, and repeatedly started fights with his big sister!!!! I hope that he gets it together by 4, or I may end up in a mental hospital. He may have won today’s battle, but I am sure to win the war.
PS. Just before bed he came to me all remorseful like saying ” mommy, I’m sorry for messing with the stroller, and pushing the button at the dentist.” it was such a touching moment until he followed up with ” now, do I still have to go to bed early? I said I was sorry.” Really?!?!?!
Well, this is my first post. I have no idea how often I’ll be able to post, or even what exactly I’ll blog about. I have never produced a blog before so please bare with me if I make some mistakes.
I chose “A Magnified Life” as the name for my blog because I look at the world through a magnifier. Even as I am typing this I am using the magnification on my IPad. I have
which is a birth defect that causes me to have very poor vision. In fact, I am considered legally blind. Yes, sometimes it adds challenges to my life, chiefly being unable to drive. However, I truly believe that God made me EXACTLY how he intended me to be, and my life has been immeasurably blessed (magnified if you will) specifically due to my disability.
Probably the most obvious example of this is I met my husband while attending a college prep program the summer after high school. I was there because of my blindness, and nearly 12 years, and three kids later here we are. By the way, all three of our kids inherited my eye condition, and my husband has an unrelated condition that makes him legally blind also. I guess that makes us the five blind mice family.
I guess I just want to share with the world both my blessings, and struggles being VI (visually impaired), and parenting VI children. I know we aren’t the only family facing these issues, and I’m sure we can support and learn from each other. Even if you are fully sighted I hope you’ll follow along. I bet you’ll find that my life is not that much different than yours. We all have our own sack of rocks to carry, mine just happens to be blindness.